The author, Nicole Grubner, and Rabbi Levi Varnai reconnecting at the Yael Awards in Vienna. (photo by Nicole Grubner)
I grew up in West Vancouver, in a home where Jewish life mattered. We celebrated the chagim (holidays), gathered for family Shabbat dinners and went to synagogue. Jewish identity was present, familiar and important. But, when it came to school, the question my parents faced was not about ideology, but practicality.
At the time, I was attending our local public school, which I loved. The Jewish school was at least a 40-minute drive each way, which would reshape daily family life. This was not a small decision.
My parents had both attended Jewish schools – my father in Chile, my mother, in England – so the value was there. And, in the end, belief won.
It was my uncle, Claudio, who ultimately tipped the balance. He didn’t provide a checklist or a plan. As my mother put it, “He just appealed to us, from his heart to ours.”
In Grade 3, my parents moved me from public school to Vancouver Hebrew Academy. That decision marked the true beginning of my Jewish journey.
Once I arrived at VHA, any lingering doubts faded quickly. My parents felt, almost immediately, that they had made the right choice.
Rebbetzin Shayndel Feuerstein z”l didn’t need to convince them that Jewish education was about more than academics; they already knew that. What stood out was how she conducted herself and the seriousness with which she approached educational excellence. She personally traveled to Israel to interview and hand-pick teachers.
The underlying challenge facing the school was not vision or quality; it was financial. Fundraising was a constant reality and, from one school year to the next, there was never complete certainty that there would be enough resources to continue operating.
When I entered VHA, I joined a class filled with children whose lives were just beginning to take shape. One of them was a boy named Levi Varnai. We were classmates for two years, from 1996 to 1998, before I transferred to Vancouver Talmud Torah for Grade 5. A couple of years later, Levi and his family moved to Israel.
Levi went on to study in yeshivot in Israel and New York, receiving smicha (rabbinical ordination) in 2011, before returning to Vancouver in 2013 to work with the Community Kollel as an assistant rabbi and youth director. Since 2016, he has served as the congregational rabbi of the Bayit in Richmond. Alongside his wife, Rivky, an educator who grew up in Safed, Israel, they have built something truly special.
One of the most powerful expressions of that work is the Bayit’s Kids Zone, an after-school and Shabbat program. Through cooking, crafts, music, games, Torah stories, mitzvot and holiday celebrations, children experience Judaism as warm, relevant and exciting. Pre-teens are guided toward leadership and responsibility, learning values like tzedakah, friendship and connection to Israel.
Many of the children who attend Kids Zone are enrolled in public school. For them, the program becomes a vital Jewish anchor. Parents speak of children singing Hebrew songs at home, lighting Shabbat candles for the first time, and engaging more deeply with Jewish life.
Today, I live in Israel with my family and work in communications. One of my key clients is the Yael Foundation, whose mission is to ensure that every Jewish child has access to quality Jewish education and the opportunity to develop a strong Jewish identity, no matter where they live.
Earlier this month, in Vienna, the Yael Foundation hosted the Yael Awards, celebrating innovation and excellence in Jewish education worldwide. The Bayit’s Kids Zone was among the finalists for the Jewish Experience of the Year Award, recognized alongside outstanding programs from across Europe.
“At the Bayit, we believe that a strong Jewish identity is built through joy, connection and hands-on experiences that make Judaism come alive for every child,” said Rabbi Varnai. “Kids Zone is the heart of that mission – a warm, welcoming space where children explore their heritage, celebrate Jewish life and grow proud of who they are as Jews.”
This year’s Jewish Experience of the Year Award was presented to Beth Habad Canton Vert in France, a community-based program that exemplifies how Jewish life can be made accessible, meaningful and vibrant for families.
Reflecting on the breadth and quality of the finalists, Chaya Yosovich, chief executive officer of the Yael Foundation, noted, “Every one of these educators is deserving of an award. We see, year after year, how educators are raising the bar to ensure the next generation feels connected and proud of their Jewish identity.”
Across the world, Jewish schools and educational programs, particularly in smaller or less visible communities, operate with limited funding and stretched staff. These communities may not sit at the centre of global Jewish attention but, for the families who live there, they are often the entry point into Jewish communal life. By investing in Jewish education globally, the Yael Foundation tries to ensure that excellence is not reserved only for large, well-resourced centres.
A Jewish journey that began in a Grade 3 classroom in Vancouver has come full circle. A former classmate now leads a community where Jewish identity is being nurtured in the next generations. And, today, I help tell the stories of educators and communities quietly investing in the Jewish future.
Nicole Grubner, a former Vancouverite who now lives and works in Israel, is a partner at FINN Partners marketing and communications agency.