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April 5, 2002

Life of a single person

TV series looks at the search for love in Vancouver.
CYNTHIA RAMSAY SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH BULLETIN

In the newest reality TV series, Paperny Films follows 11 singles on their quest for love in Vancouver.

Meet Jacob, a 24-year-old animator by day, comedian by night, who is looking for the "girl in the jogging pants" who wants to sit and watch a movie or go for a walk. And meet Carrie, 37, a youth and family worker, who is looking for a partner with whom she can raise a family.

These are just two of the people looking for a relationship, or the occasional night of companionship, in Singles. Viewers get to know something about each person through interviews and shots of the single with their friends or family.

"For five months beginning last summer, we had amazing access to the lives of each of our very different characters. They let us film them preparing for dates, sometimes even on their dates. We met their friends, lovers, parents and exes. We heard about what they hoped for, what they were afraid of and how it all turned out," said producer Stacey Offman in a release.

The promotional material claims that the series "looks deep inside the real-life ins and outs of single life" and, while there are some intimate moments, we really only get to know a little about the 11 people featured - which, frankly, is more than enough information in some cases.

"I am lonely, but I am so happy. I've got everything I ever wanted and I've got it at 24. Right now I'd like to share it all. That'd be great," explains Jacob in one episode, as he eats a breakfast of pancakes with cottage cheese and syrop. Jacob hasn't had a girlfriend in four years. He complains that he doesn't meet enough people, but the fact that he owns a well-used set of binoculars with which he peers through his window at women may be more the reason that he remains single.

Carrie comes across as more normal than Jacob. She seems to have a good relationship with her parents and to have some supportive friends, but she admits to not liking many people and not getting out much - two reasons for why she is still unattached. A lesbian, Carrie would like to be in a committed relationship and have kids, and she fears time is running out for such things.

"I get lonely, but it's a loneliness about intimacy. And as I get older and more difficult, I wonder too, am I going to meet somebody?" she says.

Among the other singles that we meet are James, a 33-year-old black man from the Prairies who says he'll do anything for love; Kirsten, 27, who is not looking for marriage or a long-term relationship; Lisa, a 37-year-old single mother who, according to her son, is looking for the "perfect man"; and Julian, 31, an architect and student, who is looking for his soulmate.

For someone who doesn't watch a lot of reality TV, it is somewhat uncomfortable to witness some of the more intimate details of strangers' lives: Julian's rejection, Lisa's drunken date and Kirsten's friends talking about bikini waxes, for example. However, there is a voyeuristic side to all of us and a curiosity to see how things turn out. Supposedly, some of the singles manage to meet their match during the series. To find out which ones is enough reason to tune in to the program, which is produced by an accomplished production company.

Vancouver-based Paperny Films' credits include the award-winning documentary The Life and Times of Dr. Henry Morgentaler, which was produced by Audrey Mehler and David Paperny, a member of the Jewish community. Paperny Films also produced the award-nominated The Broadcast Tapes of Dr. Peter, about a Vancouver doctor with AIDS, To Love, Honor and Obey, about a Canadian Sikh who married against her family's wishes, and Forced March to Freedom, a Second World War documentary.

Singles launches on Life Network Tuesday, April 9, at 6 p.m. and 10 p.m., and runs for 13 weeks.

 

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