{"id":48777,"date":"2026-04-10T01:47:34","date_gmt":"2026-04-10T08:47:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/?p=48777"},"modified":"2026-04-09T10:17:45","modified_gmt":"2026-04-09T17:17:45","slug":"reflections-from-beeri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/2026\/04\/10\/reflections-from-beeri\/","title":{"rendered":"Reflections from Be\u2019eri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Hundreds of terrorists entered Kibbutz Be\u2019eri. Of the 1,000-plus residents, 101 kibbutz members were killed, 30 people were abducted and one-third of the houses were severely damaged or destroyed. <\/i><i>(photo by Larry Barzelai)<\/i><\/p>\n<p>My wife and I frequently travel to Israel to visit our three grandchildren. Our interest in Be\u2019eri comes from its special connection with Kibbutz Hatzerim, the birthplace of our daughter-in-law. I feel that the story of Be\u2019eri is a paradigm for the story of the Jewish people, the story of building something magnificent, experiencing a great<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>destruction and rebuilding afterwards to create something even better. It also illustrates how, when people work together, they can accomplish greater things.<\/p>\n<p>Through a mutual friend, I arranged to meet Yaron, a lifelong member of Kibbutz Be\u2019eri and one who had survived the Oct. 7 massacre. He graciously took me on a tour of the kibbutz as he described the events of that day. Much of what follows are descriptions of the events in his own words. He\u2019s given me permission to share them with you.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>On the evening of Oct. 6, Yaron and other kibbutzniks were celebrating the anniversary of the founding of Kibbutz Be\u2019eri. Sharing drinks later with some of his closest friends, they started planning a summer hiking trip in the French Alps.<\/p>\n<p>At 6:30 in the morning of Oct. 7, Yaron heard unusual noises, as he slept with his wife and two young children \u2013 both under 5 years old. It sounded like shelling and bombing. When the red alert siren went off, they ran to join their kids in their home\u2019s<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><i>mamad <\/i>(reinforced security room), which is also the kids\u2019 bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>Initially, Yaron wasn\u2019t too concerned, even after receiving a text that the kibbutz may have been infiltrated by enemies. \u201cOK, I guess we\u2019ll be cooped up in here for a couple of hours,\u201d he thought.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMessages in the different kibbutz WhatsApp groups start reporting about terrorists walking inside Be\u2019eri,\u201d he writes. \u201cIt is close to 8 a.m. Someone writes a message that she hears gunshots.\u201d<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Shortly after that, someone reports hearing \u201cterrible screams from the apartment above her, then silence.\u201d Another says that one of the houses in the kibbutz is burning.<\/p>\n<p>Yaron tries to stay calm. The power goes off. Their dog, who is not inside the room, is unusually silent. They hear that someone is in their house.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey get to the room and try to open the door. I fight over the handle, heart pounding,\u201d writes Yaron. \u201cThey don\u2019t succeed! Every time they try, I swing the door handle back to the upright, \u2018Safe\u2019 position.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, the terrorists give up on opening the mamad. Yaron ignores the calls in Arabic and English to come out of the room. He and his family listen, as the terrorists sing, while wrecking the house. First, there is the smell of gasoline, then smoke enters the room.<\/p>\n<p>A neighbour advises them, via Yaron\u2019s phone, that they should close the gap under the door with wet clothes.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cI take the sheet from my daughter\u2019s bed, pour the bucket of urine on it and jam it under the door,\u201d Yaron writes. \u201cOutside the room, the fire grows fierce, it consumes five years of our lives in minutes\u2026. We are in a closed room, we have no electricity, the children are coughing. I realize that the fire in our home is probably so crazy that even those inhumane monsters can\u2019t still be waiting outside the door. I let go of the handle and I take a deep breath and feel some oxygen flow to my brain. So far, it was the pressure and fear of the terrorists that was suffocating me, but now the smoke is becoming the main problem.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yaron\u2019s wife continues to text with neighbours, calling emergency team members repeatedly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll of our children\u2019s books are burning outside,\u201d Yaron shares. \u201cAmidst all the terror we hear one of our favourites, a sound book of Arik Einstein songs, catching fire. The fire makes it play, chillingly, one of the happiest songs we know: \u2018It\u2019s Saturday morning, a beautiful day\u2026.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Suffocating on the smoke, the family has no choice but to open a window of their second-floor apartment. Despite the fear of what awaits them outside, the smoke is too much and they climb out onto the metal awning below.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe four of us are sitting on the metal. We can breathe but we are exposed 2.5 metres (eight feet) above the ground. OK, now what?\u201d Yaron recalls.<\/p>\n<p>They can\u2019t reach the emergency team, so they jump to the ground and hide in a nearby shed. Yaron jumps first, his wife hands him the kids, then follows.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_48779\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-48779\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/apr-10-Israel.10.Beeri-DSC_4355.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-48779\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/apr-10-Israel.10.Beeri-DSC_4355.jpg\" alt=\"photo - A house identical to Yaron\u2019s, which has been demolished, that gives an idea of the window of the family\u2019s safe room and the challenge of jumping to the ground from the second storey\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/apr-10-Israel.10.Beeri-DSC_4355.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/apr-10-Israel.10.Beeri-DSC_4355-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-48779\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A house identical to Yaron\u2019s, which has been demolished, that gives an idea of the window of the family\u2019s safe room and the challenge of jumping to the ground from the second storey. <em>(photo by Larry Barzelai)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cAnother neighbour reaches out, \u2018Come to my place.\u2019 I call him. I ask him to risk his life, leave his mamad and open his house for us. He does this while we\u2019re on the phone. We are hesitant to come outside, we are debating with our eyes, and can\u2019t decide if we should stay hidden in an unsafe shed or try to reach a safer place but risk exposure. I ask him to risk his life even more, to take a look outside and verify there are no terrorists in sight. He bravely obliges and says it\u2019s clear. We were in the shed for maybe five, maybe 10 minutes, maybe it was two years, who knows. The kids are silent\u2026. My heart is racing, I open the shed door and we sprint to the neighbour\u2019s house.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The fire has consumed their own home, and their beloved dog. Temporarily safe at the neighbours\u2019, Yaron sees that the fire might cross over to where they are hiding. \u201cWe decide we need to evacuate,\u201d he writes. \u201cAt a distance, we spot a few IDF soldiers. A small company or a team\u2026. They escort us to a nearby building where my brother lives. We contact him and he let us in together with two more kibbutz members who had gotten stuck in a similar situation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Around 11 p.m., soldiers returned to Yaron\u2019s brother\u2019s place. \u201cThey helped us out, they asked us to cover our children\u2019s eyes to shield them from the horrors on the kibbutz lanes and they escorted us to the yellow gate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe made it out,\u201d he writes. \u201cWe made it out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Most of Yaron\u2019s extended family survived the massacre, except for an aunt who was murdered. In total, hundreds of terrorists entered the kibbutz. Of the 1,000-plus residents, 101 kibbutz members were killed, 30 people were abducted and one-third of the houses were severely damaged or destroyed.<\/p>\n<p>Another victim of the massacre was Winnipeg-born Vivian Silver, who had, prior to Oct. 7, driven patients from the Erez border crossing to hospitals in Israel. She learned Arabic so that she could better communicate with her Bedouin neighbours. She truly believed in a peaceful future between the residents of Israel and the Palestinians of Gaza. Sadly, she was killed on Oct. 7. Her remains were so badly burned that it took weeks to identify her by DNA analysis.<\/p>\n<p>Eli Sharabi, another resident of Be\u2019eri, was kidnapped and taken to Gaza. In his book Hostage, he describes 491 tortuous days in Hamas captivity. He was looking forward to reuniting with his family once he was freed. Instead, upon his release, he discovered that his wife and daughters had been killed on Oct. 7. He cried at their gravesites for two hours, before making the decision that he had to move forward.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Immediately after Oct. 7, Yaron and his family spent many months living in an apartment in the Dead Sea area. They were alive and they were safe, relatively free from missile attacks, but life was far from normal. To say nothing of the trauma they were dealing with, reestablishing a kibbutz lifestyle, while living in a crowded hotel with none of the amenities that glue kibbutzniks together, was challenging.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The family has since relocated to a temporary custom-built village adjacent to Kibbutz Hatzerim. Be\u2019eri and Hatzerim are sister kibbutzim, both founded in 1946. Be\u2019eri<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>was named for Berl Katznelson, a founding father of Labour Zionism, whose nickname was Be\u2019eri; Hatzerim, after a verse in Deuteronomy (2:23) that mentions<i> hatzerim<\/i> (farms\/enclosures) \u201cas far as Gaza.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Be\u2019eri and Hatzerim are both traditional socialist kibbutzim, populated mainly by people on the left of the political spectrum. Thus, it was natural for Kibbutz Hatzerim to offer to build a temporary kibbutz adjacent to them for people from Be\u2019eri to live until their kibbutz was rebuilt over a two-year period.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_48780\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-48780\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/apr-10-Israel.10.Beeri-under-construction-DSC_4359.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-48780\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/apr-10-Israel.10.Beeri-under-construction-DSC_4359.jpg\" alt=\"photo - The new neighbourhood on Kibbutz Be\u2019eri, where Yaron and his family are planning on living. The rebuilding of the kibbutz is expected to take two years\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/apr-10-Israel.10.Beeri-under-construction-DSC_4359.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/apr-10-Israel.10.Beeri-under-construction-DSC_4359-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-48780\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The new neighbourhood on Kibbutz Be\u2019eri, where Yaron and his family are planning on living. The rebuilding of the kibbutz is expected to take two years. <em>(photo by Larry Barzelai)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Most former residents of Be\u2019eri are now living in the temporary kibbutz. Some facilities, such as medical clinics and administrative offices, are shared by the two kibbutzim. Otherwise, the temporary Be\u2019eri has its own houses, schools and offices. Hatzerim expanded its dental clinic, seniors lounge and grocery store to accommodate the increased needs of the larger population. In typical kibbutz fashion, members of both communities met many times to jointly plan this project.<\/p>\n<p>Every day, Yaron leaves his family on the temporary Kibbutz Be\u2019eri to commute 45 minutes to the original. About 60 kibbutz members are living there now, while it\u2019s being rebuilt, and the plan is for most members to return by the start of the school year this September. A printing factory and agriculture are the two sustaining industries on Be\u2019eri.<\/p>\n<p>Yaron\u2019s home, along with 140 others, was destroyed on Oct. 7. Recently, members of Kibbutz Be\u2019eri made a collective decision to tear down all the damaged buildings. They want to try and wipe away the terrible memories of Oct. 7 and build anew. As one part of the construction work, the kibbutz is building a new subdivision, where Yaron and his family are planning to live.<\/p>\n<p>But Yaron isn\u2019t sure that he wants to return. He was born on Be\u2019eri and has lived most of his life there. However, the memory of the trauma of Oct. 7 is very strong. He\u2019s not sure he wants to move back to this place, where so much death and destruction happened. He confided that he may want to live outside of Israel, somewhere he can anticipate a more peaceful future for his children. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Larry Barzelai<\/b><i> is a Vancouver family physician, specializing in care of the elderly, who travels to Israel frequently to visit his three grandchildren there. He is presently co-chair of the Jewish Medical Association of British Columbia.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hundreds of terrorists entered Kibbutz Be\u2019eri. Of the 1,000-plus residents, 101 kibbutz members were killed, 30 people were abducted and one-third of the houses were severely damaged or destroyed. (photo by Larry Barzelai) My wife and I frequently travel to Israel to visit our three grandchildren. 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