{"id":48185,"date":"2025-12-19T01:35:19","date_gmt":"2025-12-19T09:35:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/?p=48185"},"modified":"2025-12-18T18:13:50","modified_gmt":"2025-12-19T02:13:50","slug":"chance-led-to-great-decision","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/2025\/12\/19\/chance-led-to-great-decision\/","title":{"rendered":"Chance led to great decision"},"content":{"rendered":"

The list of things that kids learn at summer camp, while having fun and making friends, is almost endless. (photo from Camp Miriam)<\/em><\/p>\n

Serendipity led us to Camp Miriam. In the span of one week in the fall of 2017, two friends \u2013 who didn\u2019t know each other at the time \u2013 asked where I was planning to send my then\u20137-year-old daughter to camp. I had been thinking about it but had no idea where to begin. Having not grown up in Vancouver, I didn\u2019t know the options. Both friends spoke glowingly about Camp Miriam. One was an alum; the other had sent her older daughter.<\/p>\n

Camp registration day was approaching, and both of my friends\u2019 daughters were desperate to know who else would be going. I relied on those moms\u2019 advice and, with their gentle prodding, made one of the best parenting decisions I\u2019ve ever made. To this day, these moms remain among my most trusted friends.<\/p>\n

That first summer, after the five-day introductory session for her age group at Camp Miriam, our daughter came down the steps at the ferry terminal looking exhausted but happy. She was holding hands with a new friend. She hugged her friend goodbye before she hugged us hello. In the car ride home, we asked her to tell us about camp.<\/p>\n

\u201cThere was a big holiday and it was so much fun. Can I go to camp every year for that holiday?\u201d<\/p>\n

I pulled out my phone to Google Jewish holidays in July. There were a few obscure ones, but nothing that seemed worth traveling on three buses and two ferries to celebrate.<\/p>\n

\u201cDo you remember what holiday it was?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey called it Shabbat.\u201d<\/p>\n

My husband and I looked at each other.<\/p>\n

\u201cShabbat happens every week \u2013 we celebrate Shabbat, too,\u201d I started to explain. From the rearview mirror, I could see her face scrunch up.<\/p>\n

\u201cWell,\u201d she said, \u201cthey celebrate it\u00a0much\u00a0better at camp.\u201d<\/p>\n

It turns out Shabbat isn\u2019t the only thing they do better at Camp Miriam.<\/p>\n

Recently, I asked my daughter what she loves most about camp. She mentioned a few specifics \u2013 tiyul <\/i>(the overnight backpacking trip), rikud<\/i> (the weekly Shabbat Israeli folk dance) \u2013 and then said something I wasn\u2019t expecting, because it\u2019s exactly the same thing I love most about Camp Miriam. She said her favourite thing is how much she learns there.<\/p>\n

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(photo from Camp Miriam)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

As she rattled off the list of topics \u2013 Israel, Jewish traditions, Hebrew, practical skills, responsibility \u2013 I realized how often I\u2019m pleasantly surprised by what she has learned from camp. Things beyond the public school curriculum, and often beyond even my most patient and, dare I say, awesome parenting. Camp is both a safe space and a challenging one. At camp, my daughter has the opportunity to hone essential life skills: independence, resilience, teamwork, acceptance, adaptability. She has gained confidence, built friendships, appreciated the restorative power of nature, and enjoyed time away from screens. She has learned to paddle a kayak, varnish a wooden canoe, and passed the swim test doing the backstroke the year she forgot her goggles and decided\u00a0<\/span>the chlorine stung her eyes. She didn\u2019t even know what varnish was before camp. And I didn\u2019t know she could backstroke across an entire pool.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learned a lot, too.<\/p>\n

The Camp Miriam registrar later told me I had been the stereotypical nervous mom. I would show up at information sessions full of concerns and fire endless questions at the staff. Eventually, she gently reminded me that my anxiety could rub off on my child. \u201cWe\u2019ve got this,\u201d she told me. Then, she gave me the most valuable advice of all: \u201cTell your kid that when they\u2019re at camp, they should go to their counselors with their concerns and problems. That\u2019s what they\u2019re there for.\u201d I can honestly say that in all the years she\u2019s been at camp, the counselors have been there for her 100%. After a few years, I realized I should leave space at the information sessions for the new crop of nervous parents.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re now getting ready to send our daughter to Israel this summer with her Camp Miriam kvutzah<\/i> (peer group). I\u2019m no longer the nervous mom I was. Camp Miriam has helped me hone my own parenting skills. Even if a bit of nervousness still lingers \u2013 though I won\u2019t admit it does \u2013 I\u2019m mostly just thrilled for my daughter. I\u2019m full of gratitude for the experiences camp has given her. I know this upcoming trip will be transformative, and that she\u2019ll come back with greater insight, understanding and appreciation of Israel and Judaism. She will make friends from around the world and return home an even more confident, compassionate and resilient human being.<\/p>\n

And, after the trip, when I pick her up at the airport, as she hugs her camp friends goodbye, I\u2019ll be busy hugging my camp-mom friends hello.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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