{"id":45686,"date":"2024-12-20T01:57:32","date_gmt":"2024-12-20T09:57:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/?p=45686"},"modified":"2024-12-19T14:48:51","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T22:48:51","slug":"coffee-and-sympathy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/2024\/12\/20\/coffee-and-sympathy\/","title":{"rendered":"Coffee and sympathy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In <i>Startup Nation<\/i>, Dan Senor and Saul Singer\u2019s 2009 book about Israel\u2019s successes in innovation and entrepreneurship, the authors credit the hothouse environment created by the country\u2019s many challenges not as a barrier but as a catapult to its accomplishments.<\/p>\n<p>For example, mandatory military service, made necessary by Israel\u2019s tough neighbourhood, has helped cultivate leadership, teamwork, technical skills and adaptability under pressure. Put simply, young people who have made life-and-death decisions for themselves and their unit while still in their teens may be less daunted than other people when confronted with the risks required to succeed in business or other life challenges.<\/p>\n<p>In what may be an unanticipated twist on this resilience and adaptability, a chain of caf\u00e9s has emerged in Israel with a very specific clientele. Restaurateur Tamir Barelko launched Caf\u00e9 Otef, a chain with two outlets and plans for more. <i>Otef<\/i> refers to the Gaza \u201cenvelope\u201d area where the Oct. 7 invasion took place.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>A Jewish Telegraphic Agency article last week on the coffee shops tells the story of Israelis\u2019 sometimes unconventional approaches to resilience and recovery.<\/p>\n<p>The caf\u00e9s, staffed entirely by survivors of the Oct. 7, 2023, attacks on southern kibbutzim, feature products from affected communities: cheeses from Kibbutz Be\u2019eri, honey from Kibbutz Erez and other foods and products, like T-shirts, aprons and water bottles, sourced from entrepreneurs affected by the tragedy.<\/p>\n<p>The first such storefront, Caf\u00e9 Otef-Re\u2019im, named after the kibbutz adjacent to the Nova festival site and where seven residents were murdered and four taken hostage, is owned and run by Reut Karp. Her former husband, Dvir Karp, was murdered in front of their three children. Dvir was a chocolatier and his recipes are enjoyed by caf\u00e9 customers.<\/p>\n<p>Karp and other staff credit the caf\u00e9s with getting them out of bed in the mornings. One displaced kibbutznik who experienced culture shock in Tel Aviv finds the clientele can appreciate his dark humour in ways locals cannot.<\/p>\n<p>Karp emphasizes that the caf\u00e9\u2019s association with the tragedy is not a \u201cgimmick.\u201d While Tel Aviv is sometimes derided as a \u201cbubble\u201d removed from the realities faced by Israelis in other parts of the country, the central location, she explains, is a benefit that allows displaced residents from the country\u2019s north and south to meet and share experiences.<\/p>\n<p>Comfortable Canadians can hardly imagine either the inescapable grief of Israelis directly affected by Oct. 7 or the daily challenges of living with the memories. Enjoying coffee and chocolate in an environment explicitly created for working through the pain of that day and its aftermath might seem counterintuitive to those who have never experienced anything remotely similar. It may be a distinctly Israeli response to face the realities head-on.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, Karp acknowledges that her caf\u00e9 does not push the tragedy in customers\u2019 faces. One could drop in, stay awhile and leave without ever knowing the motive behind the place. One unavoidable sign, however, is a work of art made up of text messages sent on the tragic day.<\/p>\n<p>Two new caf\u00e9s are planned for the near future, including Caf\u00e9 Otef-Sderot, named for the southern town that has always been on the frontline of Gaza rockets, and Caf\u00e9 Otef-Kiryat Shmona, honouring evacuees from the northern town, which is in the Vancouver Jewish community\u2019s partnership region. Barelko, the caf\u00e9\u2019s founder, aims to recruit wounded soldiers from the ongoing war as the chain expands.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Canadian Jews, like Jews worldwide, are confronting a changed environment. Having the good fortune of comparative comfort for generations, we have not had to develop the mechanisms for coping with disasters like our Israeli cousins have been forced to cultivate. Of course, history has always presented Jews with challenges and Israelis, we might say, are a concentrated embodiment of Jewish resilience and constructive response to challenges. Caf\u00e9 Otef is one small example of that response and an example for others facing challenges. As we conclude 2024, a year of continuing tests for our people, we should take a moment of reflection and pride in how we have adapted and responded since Oct. 7, 2023.<\/p>\n<p>Many Canadian Jews feel overwhelmed and struggle to find positivity in the current moment. This is completely understandable. Nevertheless, our community has responded to changed circumstances with determination and toughness. This should be a source of immense pride. We should also focus on the extraordinary strength of Israelis as a model for facing our own difficult moments. The potent unity of Jews worldwide in the past year is a testament to <i>kol Yisrael arevim zeh bazeh<\/i>, all Jews are responsible for one another. The solidarity showed by diaspora communities has inspired and strengthened Israelis. We should not miss the opportunity to be inspired by their resolve as we confront on own very different but related troubles.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In Startup Nation, Dan Senor and Saul Singer\u2019s 2009 book about Israel\u2019s successes in innovation and entrepreneurship, the authors credit the hothouse environment created by the country\u2019s many challenges not as a barrier but as a catapult to its accomplishments. 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