{"id":44951,"date":"2024-09-13T01:53:01","date_gmt":"2024-09-13T08:53:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/?p=44951"},"modified":"2024-09-11T15:16:43","modified_gmt":"2024-09-11T22:16:43","slug":"remembering-the-six","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/2024\/09\/13\/remembering-the-six\/","title":{"rendered":"Remembering the six"},"content":{"rendered":"

Clockwise from top left: Carmel Gat, Hersh Goldberg-Polin, Eden Yerushalmi, Alex Lubanov, Ori Danino, Almog Sarusi. (photos from internet). <\/i><\/p>\n

This article is an edited version of a blog posted on Sept. 2, 2024.<\/i><\/p>\n

Carmel Gat, Hersh Goldberg-Polin, Eden Yerushalmi, Alex Lubanov, Ori Danino, Almog Sarusi. The cursor has been blinking below these six names and faces.<\/p>\n

I haven\u2019t known where to begin because there are so many emotions swirling, yet, despite the tears of devastation and despair that come to the surface and back away again, my predominant emotions are rage and frustration.<\/p>\n

Rage at the savage and violent ends for these beautiful men and women, and frustration that, even in Israel, many have assumed that so few hostages could possibly still be alive, that only 30 or 40 are likely still alive. Well, here we had six, who were all held in tunnels, where just oxygen is tough to find, surviving a Middle Eastern summer with practically no food or water or personal hygiene for close to a year, and they are not dead because they couldn\u2019t survive \u2013 they did survive. They are dead because they were murdered by Hamas at close range and, although it is customary in Judaism not to say details that will hurt the families or the memories of their loved ones, due to the level of urgency of this situation for now close to a year, I feel it is crucial to state that it is known that these particular six hostages were tortured badly before they were shot.<\/p>\n

It is important to point out the brutality of Hamas. It was an incredibly bold move for Hamas to select two young women and an American man, whose mother was on the cover of Time<\/i> magazine and whose parents just gave an electrifying speech on Aug. 21 at the Democratic National Convention, as hostages to murder so savagely. This speaks volumes to me. Hamas is fearless \u2013 and why shouldn\u2019t they be? All of the pressure for a ceasefire has been on Israel<\/i>. All of the pressure for the war to end has been on Israel.<\/i> How about: \u201cGive us back our people\u201d instead of \u201cBring them home now,\u201d why not, \u201cSend them home now\u201d?<\/p>\n

The tunnel these hostages were found in was located less than a mile from the tunnel in Rafah from which Farhan al-Qadi, a Bedouin-Israeli hostage, was rescued, so it is possible that the Israel Defence Forces\u2019 proximity led Hamas to make this horrific decision, but, had the IDF been \u201cpermitted\u201d to enter Rafah sooner and more aggressively, perhaps more could have been done to save these human beings and the rest of the hostages months ago.<\/p>\n

The anger I feel is complicated. I traveled alone to Israel last November to write about the hostages and got so involved there that I stayed until March. It is hard being in the diaspora right now, as I am realizing more and more regularly that Jews outside of Israel aren\u2019t understanding how Israeli Jews feel right now and what they need so badly from us. I\u2019ve tried to communicate this through my piece about Alon Ohel which can be read at melanie-preston.com<\/a>. (His mom\u2019s words put it so perfectly.)<\/p>\n

The vast majority of Jews in the diaspora love Israel, and so they visit and they donate and they believe that if there ever were an emergency in the world, Israel would welcome them. But this isn\u2019t something that can be taken for granted \u2013 that Israel will always be the safest country for Jews. It has not felt that way for Israelis since Oct. 7.<\/p>\n

If such a brutal attack can happen in Israel, and the government won\u2019t do everything in its power to bring the hostages home alive<\/i>, then Iran can perhaps win this war because Israelis will start to leave. This is something Hezbollah\u2019s Hassan Nasrallah has said in his speeches lately. He has said Israelis will lose faith in their own government, tourism will stop and the economy will be destroyed. We already know that Iran is winning the propaganda war.<\/p>\n

If Israelis no longer have faith in their system and feel they are not cared for as the top priority, which was happening before Oct. 7, and which many feel led to the Oct. 7 attack in the first place, then they won\u2019t want to continue risking their lives or their children\u2019s lives for the ideals of the Zionist state.<\/p>\n

It is the belief of many in Israel that these six beautiful souls did not need to die, and these six are<\/i> beautiful souls. I knew a lot about two of them and have spent the past days learning about the other four. My eyes are swollen from crying.<\/p>\n

The hearts of Israelis have been shredded for close to a year, and there is still no healing in sight. Rarely do they ask for help from the diaspora, but, more than any other time in modern Israel\u2019s history, they need us. They need all the Jews of the world putting all the pressure we can muster to get a deal done to bring the remaining hostages home alive. Anything else we need to do for the country\u2019s security can still be done after this first priority \u2013 life \u2013 is once again prioritized.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

I am going to start with Carmel Gat from Kibbutz Be\u2019eri, the woman with the infectious smile, because I feel like I have gotten to know her through her friend Adam Rapoport, who took me to see Be\u2019eri after I met him when I was writing about a different hostage who was murdered in Gaza back in January (Itay Svirsky). Adam, Itay and Carmel went to the same school.<\/p>\n

\"photo<\/a>
Carmel Gat (photo from internet)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Carmel was raised on the kibbutz but lived in Tel Aviv and worked as an occupational therapist.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe was such a loving person, such a peace-loving person. She has friends who speak all languages and are from all backgrounds,\u201d said her cousin, Gil Dickmann, on CNN. \u201cShe was always looking for ways to treat others, and to take care of them during their most horrible phases and times of their lives. We know that, in captivity, she actually took care of two youngster hostages who were with her, and she practised yoga with them and meditation with them to make sure that they came through this horrible experience OK, and … when they came back, we were so glad to hear this because this is exactly what Carmel is, and she managed to stay herself in captivity and to take care of others … that was such an amazing thing for us to hear. And, to know that after all this, after 11 months in captivity, she lost her life in such a horrible way and we missed getting her back by so little, is devastating.\u201d<\/p>\n

Imagine mastering a practice with such grace that you could be stolen by a terrorist group and manage to not just sustain your own light but spread it, teach it<\/i>, bringing light into the darkest tunnels of horror \u2013 that is nothing short of holy work.<\/p>\n

On Oct. 7, Carmel was in Be\u2019eri visiting her parents, and witnessed the murder of her mother before she was ripped away from her life and taken to Gaza. Throughout her time in captivity, \u201cYoga for Carmel\u201d was done all over the world, with people not knowing if she was alive or not, but choosing to send her strength through yoga.<\/p>\n

Well, she was<\/i> alive. She was alive in a tunnel. For almost 11 months. Not only was Carmel slated to be released on day one of any new deal, but she was on the list to be released at the end of November. Had the ceasefire not been broken by Hamas, she would have been out at the beginning of December.<\/p>\n

Carmel turned 40 years old in Gaza, in May, a couple of days after my own birthday, and I felt this strong connection and kept wondering if that meant she was alive. How I wanted her to come back. How I wanted to meet this woman of strength when I returned to Israel, when I would spend more time on Be\u2019eri. Instead, the number of dead from Be\u2019eri has increased to 102.<\/p>\n

May the memory of Carmel be a blessing to all who were lucky enough to have known her, and especially to the children she taught yoga to in Gaza to help them during their two months of terror. May they find someone with Carmel\u2019s light to get them through this.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

\"photo<\/a>
Hersh Goldberg-Polin (photo from internet)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Hersch Goldberg-Polin was supposed to embark on a globetrotting backpacking trip last December, like I did at 23. The kid who loved maps and atlases, who so many Americans feel like they know, thanks to his incredible parents, Rachel Goldberg-Polin and Jon Polin.<\/p>\n

Through the sharing of fun facts about Hersh, we have grown to love him, and creative ideas to keep his name out there included giving the name Hersh when ordering coffee at Starbucks, just to hear \u201cHersh!\u201d when\u00a0<\/span>it\u2019s ready.<\/p>\n

His mother came up with counting the days of this war by ripping off a piece of masking tape every day, writing in marker the day number of captivity and sticking the piece of tape on her shirt. Her Instagram videos have discussed the process of the number changing from two digits to three, as well as how it feels when one roll of tape ends and another begins.<\/p>\n

Hersh was seen on video being taken on Oct. 7. The video showed him being loaded onto a truck, and made clear that his arm was blown off. This was all his parents knew about their only son for a long time.<\/p>\n

As Passover began, Hamas released a video of Hersh, in which you could see that his left arm \u2013 his dominant arm, his mom would always stress \u2013 was now a stub. In that video, he stated that he was living without sunlight, food or water, and that he would not have peace on the holiday, but hoped they would.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Hersh\u2019s parents spoke clearly and strongly to those involved in the hostage negotiations: Qatar, Egypt, the United States, Hamas and Israel. \u201cBe brave, lean in, seize this moment and get a deal done to reunite all of us with our loved ones and end the suffering in this region,\u201d said his father, with respect to all involved. His mom added: \u201cAnd Hersh, if you can hear this … we heard your voice today for the first time in 201 days … and if you can hear us, I am telling you, we are telling you \u2013 we love you. Stay strong. Survive<\/i>.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

These words resonated with the hostage families and became a mantra for their loved ones. But, less than two weeks after Rachel and Jon spoke with such power and grace, they learned that Hersh came to a torturous end.<\/p>\n

May we hold his family in the light and love that they have demonstrated to all sufferers in this conflict on both sides, since the very beginning.<\/p>\n

May the memory of this young man, with the adventurous spirit he didn\u2019t get to use nearly enough, be a blessing for all who knew and loved him, and for those of us who feel like we did.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

\"photo<\/a>
Eden Yerushalmi (photo from internet)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Eden Yerushalmi was from Tel Aviv and studying to be a pilates instructor. She was bartending at the Nova festival and sent her family multiple videos as the attack began. According to the Hostages and Missing Families Forum, the final texts she sent her family that day were \u201cThey\u2019ve caught me,\u201d and then \u201cFind me, okay?\u201d These are the chilling words they were left to grapple with.<\/p>\n

The striking photo of her at the beach always stopped me in my tracks in Israel, whenever I came across it in Hostages Square or on a supermarket window or caf\u00e9 wall. It forced me yet again to take in the enormity of this tragedy, and to imagine something so sick and horrifying happening to someone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

May Eden\u2019s memory be a blessing for all who knew and loved her.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

\"photo<\/a>
Alexander Lubanov with his wife Michal (photo from internet)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Alexander Lubanov was a bar manager at the Nova Festival and the father of a 2-year-old on Oct. 7. His wife was pregnant at the time and gave birth alone while he was in Gaza. Their baby is now five months old. May Alex\u2019s memory be a blessing to his wife, his very young children and all who knew and loved him.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Ori Danino was escaping the Nova festival on Oct.7, but turned his car around to rescue more people. He was from Jerusalem and had five younger brothers and sisters.<\/p>\n

\"photo<\/a>
Ori Danino (photo from internet)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

He was happiest when he was out in nature and around people, and \u201cthe best partner you can imagine,\u201d his girlfriend, Liel Avraham, told the Jerusalem Post<\/i>.<\/p>\n

Ori left the festival with his friend in separate cars, to help as many people out as possible. He phoned his friend to ask for the phone number of festival-goers they had just met. He returned to get them, and this was the last his friend heard from him. It was determined that those Ori turned around to get were also taken hostage.<\/p>\n

May his memory be a blessing to all who knew and loved him.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

\"photo<\/a>
Almog Sarusi (photo from internet)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

According to the Hostages and Missing Families Forum, Almog Sarusi loved traveling around Israel in his white Jeep with his guitar. His girlfriend of five years was murdered at the Nova festival, and he stayed by her side, hoping to help her. He was captured and taken hostage into Gaza.<\/p>\n

May Almog\u2019s memory be a blessing to all who knew and loved him.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Melanie Preston<\/b> is a Canadian-born, American-raised, Jewish writer and traveler who discovered Israel at the age of 26, immigrated to the country and stayed for seven years. She flew to Israel alone on Nov. 16, 2023, from her home in Charlotte, NC, and was there to March of this year. She is saving to move back to Israel to continue writing about the hostages. She intends to work with the children of Be\u2019eri at Kibbutz Hatzerim and cover the rebuilding of Kibbutz Be\u2019eri. For more information, visit melanie-preston.com. To support her work, go to gofundme.com<\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Clockwise from top left: Carmel Gat, Hersh Goldberg-Polin, Eden Yerushalmi, Alex Lubanov, Ori Danino, Almog Sarusi. (photos from internet). This article is an edited version of a blog posted on Sept. 2, 2024. Carmel Gat, Hersh Goldberg-Polin, Eden Yerushalmi, Alex Lubanov, Ori Danino, Almog Sarusi. The cursor has been blinking below these six names and […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":44962,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[23482,23484,23479,23481,687,4361,23480,22700,4330,22725,23483,1774],"class_list":["post-44951","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-op-ed","tag-alexander-lubanov","tag-almog-sarusi","tag-carmel-gat","tag-eden-yerushalmi","tag-gaza","tag-hamas","tag-hersh-goldberg-polin","tag-hostages","tag-israel","tag-oct-7","tag-ori-danino","tag-terrorism"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":8}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44951","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44951"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44951\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44962"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44951"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44951"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishindependent.ca\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44951"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}